If you are interested in being a better dominant / submissive / kinkster... or just a better human, then you will want to know how to identify behavior in yourself and your partner.

Communication in BDSM and kink is centered around relationship dynamics.

Relationship to yourself.
Relationship to your partner/s.
Relationship to sex and power.

Nothing can gum up the works better than running into attachment issues and codependency.

But the beauty of BDSM is...it can help you identify and sort out some of these patterns!

Hooray!!! (You thought it was all about spanking, right??)

This class will teach you how to identify relationship patterns that get in your way.

Because BDSM requires excellent communication especially around consent and personal boundaries, it is a playground with which to observe and deal with "stuff that comes up" - including patterns of codependency and attachment issues.

A dom/sub dynamic in particular can be a container to address these patterns. And, in fact, if you want to be an informed BDSM player, it is a good idea to be well-versed in attachment styles.

As a dom, you should look out for behavior that could impact true consent. That is why learning codependency and attachment is so important.

If you are a submissive, it's important to identify these patterns in yourself and help your dom (or future dom) learn your relationship needs.

If you're ready to uplevel your relationship and communication skills, click the button to get started.