Boundaries Crossed: Part 2 How to deal with crossed boundaries or a consent violation as a sub/bottom. Consent Accidents Consent violations can also include consent accidents. A consent accident is when someone pushes past your boundaries mistakenly. However, a mistaken consent violation is still a violation, even if the person didn't mean to do it […]

Boundaries Crossed In this lesson, I'll be going over what needs to happen when there's been a consent violation. First and foremost, if you're the one who violated consent and your partner has come to you: Be patient with them, open to what they have to say, and sensitive to their emotions. Act with dignity, […]

Impacting Factors of Giving Consent The overarching goal of consent discussions in BDSM and kink play is not just to “get consent,” but to cultivate conditions where being honest is possible and safe. To this end, you need to be able to identify factors that are impeding this safe and honesty-provoking environment. This module will […]

Basics of Consent: Fries With the emergence of the #metoo movement, there has been even more talk about “consent” in our culture and the media. Typically, the conversation around consent has focused on the lack thereof. For example, sexual assault or harassment. In the BDSM community, “consent” has a workable definition. It exists, ideally, to […]