Age play: When one or more partners act a different age than they are. For example, in DDLG (Daddy Daughter Little Girl), the "little" acts like a young girl. Some refer to this as "age regression." Both people involved are always adults.
Ageplay can be mildly or very sexual. Ageplay can enhance the way partners feel and make them more comfortable in their role within dominant/submissive relationships. In a BDSM ageplay relationship, the roleplay could include some sort of punishment for "bad behavior", such as spankings, that both consenting participants agree to.
Usually sexual roleplaying involving Daddy/daughter, Daddy/son, Mother/son, Mother/daughter, Police/arrested, Teacher/student, Doctor/nurse, Doctor/patient, Uncle/niece, etc.
The main stipulation is that one person is either older or playing older than the second person, or the submissive person is younger or playing younger than the dominant.
Anal plug otherwise known as "butt plugs," anal plugs are sex toys that have a bulbous end that goes inside a person's ass hole.
Anal plugs otherwise known as "butt plugs," anal plugs are sex toys that have a bulbous end that goes inside a person's ass hole.
Rimming or Anal Rimming means “the act of using one’s tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure.”
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The act of using one's tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure. Insertion of the tongue is not necessary. Circular motions in the clockwise directions are supposedly better in the Northern hemisphere, and anti-clockwise ones in the Southern.
Rimming or Anal Rimming means “the act of using one’s tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure.”
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The act of using one's tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure. Insertion of the tongue is not necessary. Circular motions in the clockwise directions are supposedly better in the Northern hemisphere, and anti-clockwise ones in the Southern.
Penetration of the ass hole of another. Can be with a penis or a dildo or other sex toy. Otherwise known as "anal play."
Penetration of the ass hole of another. Can be with a penis or a dildo or other sex toy. Otherwise known as "anal play."
Biting refers to a primal activity during sex where one partner...well...bites the other. Sometimes this kink has to do with power play where the dominant or top bites the bottom in order to get the bottom to submit. It can also have to do with punishment. Or, biting a body part such as an ear or neck in a light way can be playful and fun.
Biting refers to a primal activity during sex where one partner...well...bites the other. Sometimes this kink has to do with power play where the dominant or top bites the bottom in order to get the bottom to submit. It can also have to do with punishment. Or, biting a body part such as an ear or neck in a light way can be playful and fun.
Using a blindfold during sex or BDSM play is a great way to create "sensory deprivation." When someone is wearing a blindfold over their eyes, their sight is removed and their other senses are heightened. This can be a great way to create suspense in a BDSM scene as well as amp up sensory play (such as touch, voice/sound, impact play, etc).
Using a blindfold during sex or BDSM play is a great way to create "sensory deprivation." When someone is wearing a blindfold over their eyes, their sight is removed and their other senses are heightened. This can be a great way to create suspense in a BDSM scene as well as amp up sensory play (such as touch, voice/sound, impact play, etc).
Consensually binding, tying or otherwise restraining another person in BDSM play. "Bondage" is the "B" in "BDSM." Bondage can be used in dom/sub play. Bondage can be accomplished via rope, leather, chains, or other means of restraint. In rope play, the top is called the "rigger," the one who ties the bottom up with rope. The bottom is often called the "rope bunny."
Consensually binding, tying or otherwise restraining another person in BDSM play. "Bondage" is the "B" in "BDSM." Bondage can be used in dom/sub play. Bondage can be accomplished via rope, leather, chains, or other means of restraint. In rope play, the top is called the "rigger," the one who ties the bottom up with rope. The bottom is often called the "rope bunny."
Breath play refers to the restriction of breathing in one or more partners in play. For example, one partner could choke another, restricting access to breath. This type of play has major risks, so should be done with caution and a tremendous amount of communication. A safe signal is important in breath play, as often the bottom (person being choked) cannot speak a safe word.
Breath play refers to the restriction of breathing in one or more partners in play. For example, one partner could choke another, restricting access to breath. This type of play has major risks, so should be done with caution and a tremendous amount of communication. A safe signal is important in breath play, as often the bottom (person being choked) cannot speak a safe word.
A cock ring is a device/sex toy that is used primarily for assisting in a stronger erection and is placed at the base of the penis. The ring is used "to restrict the flow of blood from the erect penis in order to produce a stronger erection or to maintain an erection for a longer period of time. Genital adornment is another purpose, as is repositioning the genitals to provide an enhanced appearance."
Actively worshipping someone’s cock. This can include kneeling in front of it, looking at it lovingly and offering words of praise for it, as well as energetically sucking, licking or stroking it.
Usually in a dom/sub context, a collar and leash refers to placing a collar on a submissive or bottom as an act of dominance and ownership. A leash can be attached to the collar and the submissive/bottom can be lead around by the dominant/top.
Usually in a dom/sub context, a collar and leash refers to placing a collar on a submissive or bottom as an act of dominance and ownership. A leash can be attached to the collar and the submissive/bottom can be lead around by the dominant/top.
*Trigger warning* CNC refers to “pretend rape” scenarios. CNC is heavily reliant on communication and consent around all aspects of the play involved. Required prior consent to “rape play.” The bottom (person being acted upon) gives clear boundaries to the top about what is and isn’t allowed. A safe word and a safe signal is a must. This is risky play and requires RACK
Incorporating costumes into your sex play, such as cosplay (LINK to SWE) or role playing using costumes as part of the role play. For example, you could play doctor/patient and wear a whitecoat and stethoscope.
In historic and general terms, cuckoldry is when a man gets off on seeing his wife fuck other men. Cuckolding refers to the act of being cuckolded (ie, the act of fucking someone to make your partner jealous and/or humiliated). However, cuckoldry can apply in a variety of contexts, regardless of gender positioning. For example, a cuck queen is a woman who enjoys being cuckolded by her male partner (ie, seeing him fuck other women). A “cuck” is someone who is being cuckolded (ie, the person being “cheated on”). A “bull” is a term referring to the person (usually male) who is fucking the “wife” in front of the “husband”.
Cunnilingus refers to the act of oral sex on a female, in other words, stimulation of a woman’s genitals using your tongue.
Cunnilingus refers to the act of oral sex on a female, in other words, stimulation of a woman’s genitals using your tongue.
Taking a cock deep in your throat during oral sex.
Incorporating dildos and vibrators in your sex play, whether using them to stimulate the genitals or other areas of the body.
Sexy, playful conversation that can include sexting, phone conversations, and talking during sex.
The act of two penises (or can include a dildo) penetrating both the vagina and the ass at the same time.
Exhibitionism refers to getting pleasure from sex play in front of other people or in public. Public play involves having sex or sex play in a public forum.
When one person (usually female) sits on the face of another. Can include cunnilingus and/or smothering.
When one person (usually female) sits on the face of another. Can include cunnilingus and/or smothering.
Just like it sounds – one person slapping the face of another.
Just like it sounds – one person slapping the face of another.
One person fucking the face of another. In other words, penetration of the mouth and throat of another person. (Male with penis, female with strapon dildo.
One person fucking the face of another. In other words, penetration of the mouth and throat of another person. (Male with penis, female with strapon dildo.
Using one’s fingers to penetrate the ass or vagina of another.
Using one’s fingers to penetrate the ass or vagina of another.
The act of penetrating one’s fist inside the (usually) vagina of another.
The act of penetrating one’s fist inside the (usually) vagina of another.
Using a flogger to whip and impact the body of another.
Using a flogger to whip and impact the body of another.
Worshipping the foot with words, energy, attitude and actions.
One person is penetrated by another’s cock and gags on it or makes choking noises due to obstruction.
One person is penetrated by another’s cock and gags on it or makes choking noises due to obstruction.
Devices used to gag another. This means to obstruct the mouth so that the person cannot speak.
Urinating on another as a sex act. Otherwise known as “waterworks” or “watersports,” sometimes involving dominance and submission. The top/dom urinates on the sub/bottom and both get sexual satisfaction out of the act.
Urinating on another as a sex act. Otherwise known as “waterworks” or “watersports,” sometimes involving dominance and submission. The top/dom urinates on the sub/bottom and both get sexual satisfaction out of the act.
Having sex in a group, whether it is threesomes, foursomes, swinging, or orgies. Gangbang refers to participants acting upon one person, i.e., one woman being penetrated by 5 men.
During the act of sex, one person pulls the hair of the other.
During the act of sex, one person pulls the hair of the other.
One person strokes the cock of another with their hand.
One person strokes the cock of another with their hand.
Homemade porn refers to people making porn with their own cameras and not as a professional shoot for money.
Humiliation refers to the act of one person humiliating another for sexual gratification of both. For example verbal humiliation can include calling someone names that humiliate them, whereas physical humiliation could be forcing someone into positions that humiliate them (ie, face under foot or kneeling).
Humiliation refers to the act of one person humiliating another for sexual gratification of both. For example verbal humiliation can include calling someone names that humiliate them, whereas physical humiliation could be forcing someone into positions that humiliate them (ie, face under foot or kneeling).
Two or more people masturbating at the same time.
Playing with the nipples, either yourself or someone else. Can also include using implements such as nipple clamps.
Playing with the nipples, either yourself or someone else. Can also include using implements such as nipple clamps.
Objectifying someone means you treat them as an object. For example, one person can objectify the other by focusing their comments on one body part.
Objectifying someone means you treat them as an object. For example, one person can objectify the other by focusing their comments on one body part.
The prevention of orgasm in another. Often associated with “edging,” which means bringing someone to the edge of climax. Orgasm denial is often used in d/s play, with the top or dom disallowing the bottom/sub to orgasm.
The prevention of orgasm in another. Often associated with “edging,” which means bringing someone to the edge of climax. Orgasm denial is often used in d/s play, with the top or dom disallowing the bottom/sub to orgasm.
Paddling is impact play using a paddle. One person (usually the top or dom) paddles the bottom/sub. Paddling should never occur in areas that could cause harm, such as the kidney area of the back. Usually, paddling the buttocks is the safest area, as it has more tissue to cushion.
Paddling is impact play using a paddle. One person (usually the top or dom) paddles the bottom/sub. Paddling should never occur in areas that could cause harm, such as the kidney area of the back. Usually, paddling the buttocks is the safest area, as it has more tissue to cushion.
Pain play is when one or more persons get pleasure out of receiving and/or inflicting pain on another. Sometimes used by sadists and masochists, pain can be useful for discipline or “funishment” (ie, fun punishment). Pain can occur in many ways, usually by “impact play,” which means physically impacting another with an implement such as a hand or paddle or whip. Pain can also occur by using hot wax, sharp objects, or other implements.
Pain play is when one or more persons get pleasure out of receiving and/or inflicting pain on another. Sometimes used by sadists and masochists, pain can be useful for discipline or “funishment” (ie, fun punishment). Pain can occur in many ways, usually by “impact play,” which means physically impacting another with an implement such as a hand or paddle or whip. Pain can also occur by using hot wax, sharp objects, or other implements.
Sexual activity over the course of a phone conversation. This can include dirty talk, mutual masturbation or dom/top orders to a bottom/sub.
Short for pornography, porn refers to the viewing of pornographic video for sexual gratification.
Using fingers or other implements such as dildos to rub the inside of the ass or vagina to hit the prostate. The prostate area is different on men than women. Prostate play is usually referring to this activity on a man.
Using fingers or other implements such as dildos to rub the inside of the ass or vagina to hit the prostate. The prostate area is different on men than women. Prostate play is usually referring to this activity on a man.
Mommy/Babyboy is usually a dom/sub dynamic that has “Mommy” as the dominant and “Babyboy” as the submissive. This play can include age regression (ie, pretendin to be a small child) but not always.
Master/slave refers to a dom/sub dynamic where the “Master” is the dominant and the “slave” is the submissive. Usually, an M/S dynamic involves service to the dominant and full submission by the slave as if the Master “owned” the slave and the slave would do anything the Master commanded.
Teacher/student refers to role play where the dominant or top plays the role of teacher and the sub/bottom plays the role of student. The teacher can command the student to do homework, etc and get punished.
Boss/secretary refers to role play where the dominant or top plays the role of “boss” who can then tell the “secretary” what to do.
Mommy/Babyboy is usually a dom/sub dynamic that has “Mommy” as the dominant and “Babyboy” as the submissive. This play can include age regression (ie, pretendin to be a small child) but not always.
Master/slave refers to a dom/sub dynamic where the “Master” is the dominant and the “slave” is the submissive. Usually, an M/S dynamic involves service to the dominant and full submission by the slave as if the Master “owned” the slave and the slave would do anything the Master commanded.
Teacher/student refers to role play where the dominant or top plays the role of teacher and the sub/bottom plays the role of student. The teacher can command the student to do homework, etc and get punished.
Boss/secretary refers to role play where the dominant or top plays the role of “boss” who can then tell the “secretary” what to do.
Texting in a sexual way with another person. Sexting can include dirty words and phrases meant to illicit a sexual response in another.
The act of spanking another for sexual or power gratification. Spanking usually involves a hand against flesh and typically is directed at the buttocks.
The act of spanking another for sexual or power gratification. Spanking usually involves a hand against flesh and typically is directed at the buttocks.
In sex or bdsm play, spitting on the face or other areas of the body is sometimes part of the gratification of the scene for both participants.
In sex or bdsm play, spitting on the face or other areas of the body is sometimes part of the gratification of the scene for both participants.
Typically used as a restraining device, spreader bars are meant to hold a person’s legs apart. They are usually attached to the ankles of the person and then the bar is “spread” out to move the legs outward thus spreading them wider.
Typically used as a restraining device, spreader bars are meant to hold a person’s legs apart. They are usually attached to the ankles of the person and then the bar is “spread” out to move the legs outward thus spreading them wider.
A type of orgasm in a woman where liquid comes out of the urethra. Squirting is essentially female ejaculation.
Sexual play where one partner uses a strap-on to penetrate the other person. A strap-on is a device that is a harness secured to the pelvis and hips of the top/dom (ie, person using the strap-on) that holds in place a dildo used to penetrate another person.
An activity where couples swap partners. For example, two couples could swap partners with one husband having sex with the other husband’s wife and vice versa.
Where three people have sex. A threesome can be a combination of genders or non-binary. “MMF” refers to a male-male-female threesome. “FFM” refers to a female-female-male threesome.
