03. Scene Planning

In this video, we will cover everything you need to know to plan your BDSM Scene, including how to come up with ideas for scenes, how to sequence the scene and what tools you might need.
 Emily Anne
Updated: October 3, 2020

Scene Planning

Okay in this module we're going to cover seen planning so what you want to do is you want to go take your top three or five activities from a king Quest or btsm list I'm going to show you how to do that with our King test which we games so that it's more convenient for partners to come together and filter and show different areas of interest not just a yes no maybe but like actually some creditors of like you're interested in the particular kink or activity so it is we have definitions for each kink and you we ranked the kinks you can rank them from a six star down to a one star so the six star is OMG got to have it it's like it's a must five is very interested for is interested three is willing to try two is maybe curious and one is no hard limit so this is really helpful for you to use you you can feel yours out and then invite your submissive or your partner or another partner if you're having a threesome or a group play and then you can compare them side by side and that there's there's going to be a filter available for you so you can take the top three to five that you can filter from the list that you both have come together and said okay these are the priorities and create a framework for the scene out of those and of course you're going to have other activities that are going to happen these are just like the main things so like you might have some different sensation play that happens in there but there's three or five activities could be could range from sexual to non-sexual it could be impact play could be sensation play it could be you know edging orgasm whatever so you want to create a framework for the scene based on those that's going to you're going to want to have a beginning middle and end and then you want to take that framework and start kind of day during about it that's really where the creativity comes in there's no right or wrong way to do a scene I can't it really wouldn't be coming from you would be coming for me but I do walk my clients through to help them with ideas and where to place them how to paste the scene but you are really wanted to start using your imagination just like start imagining of the same could go and I call you can write it out if you want but you can really to start like closing your eyes and like imagining how you see it going and the activities that are going to happen and sequence from there you want to figure out what space and implements you need like you're going to want to decide on a time and a place for the scene and it has to be agreed upon with the subs so you know set out of a day and a time and also like where it's going to happen is it going to happen in someone's house in a bedroom where are your implements you have them where you need them you're going to decide on the basic commands based on that framework so start thinking of like where you're going to ask the sub to be and move those are things are going to come up in the middle of this scene when you need them like you'll you'll you'll naturally do you like it on the bed on the floor Neil you don't get in position different things like that the rule of thumb here is to when you're planning or seen and you've done your mind movie you really want to go back to the beginning of the Mind movie and go okay we want to start strong if you can nail the beginning sequence and have that be the most structure out of the whole thing you'll it'll give you a lot of confidence to continue the scene so if you really want to kind of pinned down those first you know 5 to 10 minutes of the scene 3 to 5 minutes at least and know exactly what you're going what commands are going to give in the beginning and then the rest you can improve and rest and we're going to get into that in the execution module really good point here is especially if your new don't be too ambitious start low and slow like don't bite off more than you can chew or that you know about you won't need to be risk-aware send a consent in Risk issues in this in this course but you just focus on the stuff that you are more confident on and that you have experience in and you can sprinkle in some new stuff so long as you have consent with the submissive that you're that you're trying something new and it and you know it might be something that you have to immediately stop if it's not going well is planning 

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